10 things

A few of the blogs I read were doing an exercise this week:

10 things that are shocking or revealing from your dating/sexual history.

So, here goes

1. I lost my virginity at 19, my sophomore year of college. In contrast, my father had me three days prior to his 19th birthday.

2. The first girl I ever kissed was in my junior year of high school. We acted together in the play On Golden Pond. We were the old couple. One night in a friend's backyard, I got her to reenact the kissing scene, only this time I frenched her. When she stuck her tongue in my mouth, I almost threw up. We never kissed again.

3. On a high school trip to New York, I fingered a girl through her pocket on top of the Empire State Building. When we got back to the hotel, she wanted me to come to her room, but I didn't really like her, so I said no, and that was that. She hated me after that.

4. The girl I lost my virginity to ended up being my first girlfriend and we were together for three years. At the end of our relationship, we weren't having much sex anymore. She was reluctant, and I would beg. She mostly would just give me a handjob. Then one time as I was begging for sex, she told me that what I was doing was a form of rape. I think she really messed me up.

5. I slept with a lesbian girl who was a friend of a friend. I guess she was curious, and my friend hooked us up. After it was over, she left. She gave me her pack of smokes before leaving. I remember thinking that it was the closest I would ever come to having a Hustler type male fantasy.

6. When leaving a party, I gave a friend of mine a kiss goodbye, and she kissed me back with tongue. We went upstairs to a little room where people would go to get high, and I went down on her. During, the girl I was actually sleeping with walked in on us. That was awkward.

7. I met a girl at a party and we hooked up. I didn't wear a condom, and I came inside her. She kept me up all night, telling me that if she got pregnant, her father would make me marry her. I got so stressed that night, the next day I woke up and had a brown spot in my right eye that is still there. I can see it just to the right of my vision when I look at something white. It floats to the right when I try and look at it directly. Always to the right.

8. I had a huge crush on a friend of mine, and after about six months of this, I asked her on a date and she actually accepted. I took her to a nice dinner and when the bill came, I didn't have enough money. I didn't have a credit card at that time, so when she went to the bathroom, I stole $40 from her purse to pay for the bill. Always take your purse!

9. I've only had 9 lovers in my whole life. I always felt bad about that number, having come so close to double digits, and then stopping. Now, I am pretty much going to get my wish. Be careful what you wish for...

10. The only woman I've been with for over a decade was my wife, and I'm scared to death about my performance for the next time. I think this is what is stopping me from pursuing it.